Limits Mean Love

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Online Course
Home and School Strategies for Creating Respectful, Responsible Kids

 

Have you ever met a child who loves to be told what to do—so that they can do the opposite?

For over 40 years, the Love and Logic Institute has been recognized as the trusted leader in helping parents, educators, and counselors bring the best out of challenging kids.

Join Jim Fay as he weaves humorous stories with practical solutions that will change your life.

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Online Course
How Do I Get These Kids To Behave?

Every adult knows there are good days and bad days. What can be difficult to figure out is how to get through and overcome the bad ones. What do you do when a child won’t listen? Refuses to go to bed? Doesn’t complete homework? Continually displays disrespectful behavior? Love and Logic has developed effective solutions to all these issues and more.

This course, presented by Charles Fay, Ph.D., tackles the everyday obstacles of parenting and teaching to break down how you can better understand and reach challenging, unmotivated kids.

 

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Dive Into What You'll Discover

SESSION 1

Kids Need to Make More Decisions

  • Avoiding warnings and threats
  • Allowing kids to learn from consequences
  • Using choices and enforceable statements

SESSION 1

Three No Regret Strategies

  • Sharing control
  • Focus 99% of your energy on character
  • Family contributions - ABCs
  • Choices
  • Learning opportunities 

SESSION 2

Consequences

  • Buy time and make a plan
  • Anger and frustration vs. empathy
  • Avoiding power struggles
  • Kind and strong all at the same time

SESSION 2

Arguing For Fun & Profit

  • Use of very few words
  • Replace lectures
  • Finding your one-liner
  • Power of overhearing
  • Anger & frustration vs. empathy

SESSION 3

Guiding Kids to Own and Solve Their Own Problems

  • Empathy
  • Nothing works without relationships
  • Obedience based on love and respect

SESSION 3

Dealing With Conflict

  • Listening skills
  • Turn your words into gold
  • Setting limits
  • Nothing works without relationships
  • Love and respect based obedience

Bonus Audio

The Gift of Limits

Dr. Charles Fay

The happiest and most secure kids have something in common—adults in their lives who provide and enforce loving limits. In this audio you will hear practical tips for giving the gift of limits to children ages 10 months to over 20 years.

Learn how to apply the Three Key Guidelines for Setting Limits:

  1. Treat them with great respect—so that they will see how to treat you.
  2. Describe what you are willing to do or allow—so that you can maintain control.
  3. Follow through with empathy and actions—rather than anger, threats, or lectures.

This audio is a must for parents, educators, and anyone else responsible for shaping youth into respectful, self-controlled, and happy people.

Get the Online Course + Bonus Audio for $91

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About Love and Logic

45 Years of Research

The Love and Logic approach is the original world leader in changing the lives of parents, teachers, and kids through practical, effective, and fun techniques.

A loving, balanced approach

We provide a loving, balanced approach that is neither permissive nor punitive.

  • We show adults how to discipline kids without losing their love and respect.
  • We focus on helping children develop personal responsibility, self-control, and good decision-making skills.
  • Unlike some approaches, we don’t use complicated reward or punishment systems, which only focus on short-term compliance.
  • Instead, we focus on nurturing long-term relationships and reinforcing good character.

Get the Online Course + Bonus Audio for $91

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You'll Receive Guidance for a Lifetime

You’ll have access to:

  • All three sessions of Home and School Strategies for Creating Respectful, Responsible Kids (available for you to watch on your schedule)
  • Downloadable workbook to reinforce what you learn
  • One additional audio, The Gift of Limits: Why Kids Who Have Limits Feel Safer and More Loved

You'll Receive Guidance For A Lifetime

You’ll have access to:

  • All three sessions of How Do I Get These Kids to Behave?, available for you to watch on your schedule
  • Downloadable Workbook to reinforce what you learn
  • One additional audio that dives deep into the most common parenting styles

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